A man ashamed to speak of those things Women don’t know

Boston university school of medicine, clinical psychologist Stanley & middot; Du Sham said, in the aspect of sex, the female often have high expectations for the other half, but it is not a good thing for men, they even call & other; One of the most fearful experience & throughout; . Because that this leads to men under great psychological pressure, anxiety. Stanley & middot; Du Sham said the men usually pay special attention to sexual anxiety erection quality, for fear of too fast, so they often hurry & other; Do finished & throughout; And sometimes can happen to feel afraid of sex scenes. These people will experience anxiety and other similar feelings, such as sex before a racing heartbeat, shortness of breath, etc. Generally speaking, the young man due to lack of experience, prone to anxiety. Elderly men for sexual dysfunction, led to increasing anxiety. Experts said that if found herself the possibility of a sexual anxiety, might as well addressed from the following several aspects. Don’t simply attributed to marriage. Many people think bad blood will out in terms of sex, but Stanley & middot; Du Sham said that if men are married, instead more prone to anxiety. If a man is very care about the other half, want to be together with her life, this will give him enormous pressure of marriage, and anxiety. There is no feeling should delay sex. Many people mistakenly think men ready to sex, and forever, this concept is very unfavorable for men’s health. If men don’t have sex, and often reluctantly, eventually lead to anxiety. Stanley & middot; Du Sham said, might as well when didn’t feel put off our sex. Forget the unpleasant experience. Is only an imperfect sex expression, also in man mind lingering, anxiety, and fall into a vicious cycle of psychological anxiety and sexual performance problems. Learn to forget the unpleasant experience, positive psychological construction for oneself, to regain confidence. Change a sex site. Sex environment also can lead to anxiety. Making love in the place of disturbing, embarrassed, or by outside interference, brings with it a feeling anxiety. Learn to roll with the punches. When the male sexual performance lower than expected, if the woman take & other; Roll with the punches & throughout; Attitude, and comfort the other half it’s not a big problem, the sexual expression that this time really is not a problem; But if the woman think men some way out of the question, and overly harsh, male sexual anxiety may appear. Focus on the present. If men in sexual anxiety, he will be the focus in the sexual stimulation from the excited relationships-particularly those founded transferred to worry about what could go wrong, this kind of thinking mode will lead to anxiety self-reinforcing. Stanley & middot; Du Sham said: & other; A man should be focusing on sex itself, rather than think of things in mind, don’t always thinking about yourself it’s strong enough. Throughout the &; Talk openly. Open communication sex experience, help to overcome anxiety. Let the other know what sex brought you a pressure, and sex must not as perfect as expectation, it will unload many psychological burden, then sex to focus on key aspects, such as how to better meet to both sides. The bedroom is not playing. Sex is not a race, Stanley & middot; Du Sham said: & other; The sex as a race, don’t think sex is successful will fail, should not be brought into the wrong attitude of the bedroom. Throughout the &; Might as well based on the existing conditions, enjoying their “two people in the world. Weigh the taking & other; Aphrodisiac & throughout; The pros and cons. Against the erectile dysfunction drugs is one of the ways to overcome the anxiety, but its advantages and disadvantages also needs careful consideration. Stanley & middot; Du Sham said: & other; Some men can produce certain dependence on medication, if there is no aphrodisiac key moments, will be more worry and fear. Throughout the &; Bring (life times stringers Li Yuekang)

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